Romance meme
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the_death_cardFrom Plurk:
Questions
1. Are they physically affectionate?
Hells to the yes. Jack went so long without physical affection that when he has people that will let him show physical affection and give it to him, he's all about it.
That doesn't mean he's not still shit at asking for it when he wants it, but.
2. Do they have a type?
Not... really? He needs someone he can talk to, so intelligence is important, and he appreciates competency. He's attracted to snark and playfulness - he couldn't be with someone that was too serious. As far as looks, though? I don't think he has too strong a preference.
3. What are their deal breakers?
He's had a few one night stands here and there, but if he's actually in a relationship, he needs commitment, and I think someone cheating on him or betraying him in some other way would be an absolute deal breaker.
Also someone demeaning him or putting down things he's interested in and that kind of thing would be a dealbreaker. He lived long enough not being able to enjoy the things he wanted to because of being stuck a ward of the state and so on that he's not going to fight someone on it, now.
4. Are they sub, dom, or switch?
Uh. This is a... tricky question for him. He could go either way as far as being a top or bottom? But he would also have to really trust someone to let them tie him down, so... I don't know. Sex is still a weird thing for him - in that he's never had it that wasn't just a quick thing -, and I never know how to answer this question.
5. How long do their relationships tend to last?
Not very, unfortunately, which is why he really feels like he's never had a real relationship. He still has a hard time opening up to people - though he's been getting better with that since meeting the Horsemen - but he also does need that committed relationship, so... it's tricky.
6. Would they ever get married?
Absolutely.
7. Do they give their partners cute nicknames?
I don't know if "cute" is the right word? But he definitely does call people by nicknames, so. Yes?
8. Are they more sensual or sexual?
Again with sex being a weird thing for Jack? Probably more sensual as far as my understanding of the difference between the two goes? But... he just hasn't had much experience with this stuff, and it means he's a bit immature on it all.
9. What is their favorite outside of the bedroom activity to do with their partner?
Honestly, just about anything? Dinner, movies, just walking around the park and talking. He likes spending time with the people he's close to.
10. What is their favorite bedroom activity to do with their partner?
Uh... without copping out and just saying "sex"... I think it would depend on the partner, honestly, considering he doesn't really have a certain type for me to base it on.
11. Are they prone to jealousy?
Not.... really. The Horsemen are one of the few good things he's ever really been given and that he knows, now, he's not going to lose. If someone were to cheat on him or anything like that, I feel like he'd be more sad about it than jealous.
12. Does their demeanor change in a relationship?
Again, not really. He's happy when he has people he loves around, but that applies to the Horsemen, too.
13. Do they display affection in public? What about in private?
I feel like the "in private" part is an obvious yes, but he also wouldn't be against holding hands and hugging and that kind of thing. I don't think he'd be down for serious, over the top PDA but smaller stuff, sure.
14. Are they open to threesomes or a polyamorous relationship?
I think he could be? It would have to be the right people and he would have to trust both of them and all that?
15. Do they have a certain type of person they will not enter into a relationship with?
He wouldn't date an asshole? :p I don't know that I can sum it up very well, though. They couldn't be too serious or anything like that, but... I don't really know how to generalize beyond that.
16. How long until they feel secure and comfortable in a relationship?
It would take a bit, I think? Again, he's so used to losing things that I think it would take him a little while to stop worrying that the person was going to leave him or whatever.
17. Would they ever confess their feelings first?
Ugh. Emotions are hard. I think he would, but again, it would take a little bit for him to be comfortable enough, to know that his feelings weren't going to be used against him and that he could trust them with it.
18. Would they ever cheat on their partner?
Nope.
19. Do they want children?
Yes. He's inclined to foster/adopt, though, considering the time he spent in the system and considering he knows how many kids there are out there who need good homes - and he's assuming at this point that he's going to have the money for that sort of thing.
20. Are they a cuddler?
Again: hell to the yes. He'll cuddle anyone who will let him, whether or not he's dating them.
21. Do they believe in soul mates?
Not really. He's more a fan of making your own path and all that - see also: his key tattoo and "opening his own doors" - but he does think some people are better suited for each other and that kind of thing.
22. Are they protective of their partner?
Jack is protective of everyone he's close to on a serious level. He's really the only one of the Horsemen who is remotely a fighter, so he definitely sees himself as the protector there, to make sure nothing physical happens to any of them. The same would absolutely apply to anyone he was dating.
23. How far as they willing to go for the person they love?
On what level? If he cares about someone, he'll do anything for them - and he literally robbed banks and faked his own death to get into a secret organization he wasn't even sure actually existed, so... the kid's willing to go pretty far when he puts his mind to something. XD
24. Do they fall in love easily?
Despite everything he dealt with growing up - or maybe because of it -, he can't help but latch on to people that he lets himself get close to - so yes? I've always felt like he's the heart of the group because he can't keep himself from getting close to people.
25. Do they share information with their relationships freely with friends and family?
Yes? Or, well. Henley, definitely. Merritt, with some things, if just because Merritt picks up so much whether or not he's told it. Daniel, probably not just because he wouldn't want to hear about it? And Dylan's his dad, so it's kinda weird talking about that stuff to your dad.
26. Are they concerned with the social status of their partner?
Nope. Jack was one step up from being a street kid growing up and knew a lot of people who were living on the streets. I mean, he would be concerned if he were seeing someone who didn't have anywhere else to go, but not in the way I think this question means it.
27. Do they tend to sleep better when in bed with their partner?
If it's someone he trusts and if they've been together a while, yeah. I think the alternative is a possibility, too, though, that he would be afraid of waking them up if he had a nightmare or something of that sort.
Questions
1. Are they physically affectionate?
Hells to the yes. Jack went so long without physical affection that when he has people that will let him show physical affection and give it to him, he's all about it.
That doesn't mean he's not still shit at asking for it when he wants it, but.
2. Do they have a type?
Not... really? He needs someone he can talk to, so intelligence is important, and he appreciates competency. He's attracted to snark and playfulness - he couldn't be with someone that was too serious. As far as looks, though? I don't think he has too strong a preference.
3. What are their deal breakers?
He's had a few one night stands here and there, but if he's actually in a relationship, he needs commitment, and I think someone cheating on him or betraying him in some other way would be an absolute deal breaker.
Also someone demeaning him or putting down things he's interested in and that kind of thing would be a dealbreaker. He lived long enough not being able to enjoy the things he wanted to because of being stuck a ward of the state and so on that he's not going to fight someone on it, now.
4. Are they sub, dom, or switch?
Uh. This is a... tricky question for him. He could go either way as far as being a top or bottom? But he would also have to really trust someone to let them tie him down, so... I don't know. Sex is still a weird thing for him - in that he's never had it that wasn't just a quick thing -, and I never know how to answer this question.
5. How long do their relationships tend to last?
Not very, unfortunately, which is why he really feels like he's never had a real relationship. He still has a hard time opening up to people - though he's been getting better with that since meeting the Horsemen - but he also does need that committed relationship, so... it's tricky.
6. Would they ever get married?
Absolutely.
7. Do they give their partners cute nicknames?
I don't know if "cute" is the right word? But he definitely does call people by nicknames, so. Yes?
8. Are they more sensual or sexual?
Again with sex being a weird thing for Jack? Probably more sensual as far as my understanding of the difference between the two goes? But... he just hasn't had much experience with this stuff, and it means he's a bit immature on it all.
9. What is their favorite outside of the bedroom activity to do with their partner?
Honestly, just about anything? Dinner, movies, just walking around the park and talking. He likes spending time with the people he's close to.
10. What is their favorite bedroom activity to do with their partner?
Uh... without copping out and just saying "sex"... I think it would depend on the partner, honestly, considering he doesn't really have a certain type for me to base it on.
11. Are they prone to jealousy?
Not.... really. The Horsemen are one of the few good things he's ever really been given and that he knows, now, he's not going to lose. If someone were to cheat on him or anything like that, I feel like he'd be more sad about it than jealous.
12. Does their demeanor change in a relationship?
Again, not really. He's happy when he has people he loves around, but that applies to the Horsemen, too.
13. Do they display affection in public? What about in private?
I feel like the "in private" part is an obvious yes, but he also wouldn't be against holding hands and hugging and that kind of thing. I don't think he'd be down for serious, over the top PDA but smaller stuff, sure.
14. Are they open to threesomes or a polyamorous relationship?
I think he could be? It would have to be the right people and he would have to trust both of them and all that?
15. Do they have a certain type of person they will not enter into a relationship with?
He wouldn't date an asshole? :p I don't know that I can sum it up very well, though. They couldn't be too serious or anything like that, but... I don't really know how to generalize beyond that.
16. How long until they feel secure and comfortable in a relationship?
It would take a bit, I think? Again, he's so used to losing things that I think it would take him a little while to stop worrying that the person was going to leave him or whatever.
17. Would they ever confess their feelings first?
Ugh. Emotions are hard. I think he would, but again, it would take a little bit for him to be comfortable enough, to know that his feelings weren't going to be used against him and that he could trust them with it.
18. Would they ever cheat on their partner?
Nope.
19. Do they want children?
Yes. He's inclined to foster/adopt, though, considering the time he spent in the system and considering he knows how many kids there are out there who need good homes - and he's assuming at this point that he's going to have the money for that sort of thing.
20. Are they a cuddler?
Again: hell to the yes. He'll cuddle anyone who will let him, whether or not he's dating them.
21. Do they believe in soul mates?
Not really. He's more a fan of making your own path and all that - see also: his key tattoo and "opening his own doors" - but he does think some people are better suited for each other and that kind of thing.
22. Are they protective of their partner?
Jack is protective of everyone he's close to on a serious level. He's really the only one of the Horsemen who is remotely a fighter, so he definitely sees himself as the protector there, to make sure nothing physical happens to any of them. The same would absolutely apply to anyone he was dating.
23. How far as they willing to go for the person they love?
On what level? If he cares about someone, he'll do anything for them - and he literally robbed banks and faked his own death to get into a secret organization he wasn't even sure actually existed, so... the kid's willing to go pretty far when he puts his mind to something. XD
24. Do they fall in love easily?
Despite everything he dealt with growing up - or maybe because of it -, he can't help but latch on to people that he lets himself get close to - so yes? I've always felt like he's the heart of the group because he can't keep himself from getting close to people.
25. Do they share information with their relationships freely with friends and family?
Yes? Or, well. Henley, definitely. Merritt, with some things, if just because Merritt picks up so much whether or not he's told it. Daniel, probably not just because he wouldn't want to hear about it? And Dylan's his dad, so it's kinda weird talking about that stuff to your dad.
26. Are they concerned with the social status of their partner?
Nope. Jack was one step up from being a street kid growing up and knew a lot of people who were living on the streets. I mean, he would be concerned if he were seeing someone who didn't have anywhere else to go, but not in the way I think this question means it.
27. Do they tend to sleep better when in bed with their partner?
If it's someone he trusts and if they've been together a while, yeah. I think the alternative is a possibility, too, though, that he would be afraid of waking them up if he had a nightmare or something of that sort.
